How is your marriage doing? How did you (and your spouse) adjust from living a single life for many years to married life? Or did you? If you ran into issues because of difficulty with such an adjustment, how did youguys resolve it?
I'm married 5 years and we're still dealing with this. I am the more flexible of the two of us...by far. I have adjusted very well to living with another. Although he has adjusted and changed at a snail's pace, we still have arguments because he is still thinking like a single man (ie. used to doing things on his own, etc.) The positive is that he fully admits how difficult this is for him. It just seems that, because I am more flexible, that I bend the most...and lately that is starting to wear on me.
I'm married 5 years and we're still dealing with this. I am the more flexible of the two of us...by far. I have adjusted very well to living with another. Although he has adjusted and changed at a snail's pace, we still have arguments because he is still thinking like a single man (ie. used to doing things on his own, etc.) The positive is that he fully admits how difficult this is for him. It just seems that, because I am more flexible, that I bend the most...and lately that is starting to wear on me.